John Mayer vs Michael Jackson? Which do you choose?
Ok, so I actually like both as muscians, thats not the query here. My query refers not to the artists nor to which is a better entertainer, person, or musician. My query refers to the different attitudes expressed in two of their songs..."That's why we're waiting
Waiting on the world to change...
One day our generation's gonna rule the population
So we keep on waiting
Waiting on the world to change"
These are the words of John Mayer. Now I know there is a certain context to the song, I dont want to ignore that, but if you bare with me, thats not what we're worried about here....
As I listened to these words on the radio last week I was reminded of another favourite tune by Michael Jackson which includes these words...
"Im starting with the man in the mirror
Im asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself, and
Then make a change"
Words I have heard (and yes, sung along to) many times before, but which this time made me realise the significantly key difference between the two attitudes of these two sets of lyrics; one, wait for the world to change, you dont need to do the changing, its the world that does. The other: start with yourself, and that will make an impact on self, others, service of God, and the world (obviously to varying degrees). One allows either for the attitude of change is too hard or simply that of indifference. While the other reinforces the worth of taking action to make the most of the world & life God has given us, and to do so starting with self.
I personally have recently realised the beauty and worth of challenging oneself, in embracing life, so as to contribute to this world, relationships, and the lives of others in the best way possible!
A lot of change has happened in my life recently. And therefore, also a lot of growth. It is exciting to see how God shapes you and to see how life can change for the better when you do more than just 'wait for the world to change'... I think life is most enjoyed - and most effectively utilised as God intends - when we dont just sit back and wait to see what will happen to us...
I dont know about you, but 'Im starting with the (wo)man in the mirror'